My name is Vivian. I met this guy 5yrs ago when I was 15yrs doing grade 10. He was my choir conductor. We dated since March 2008 it was all well he told me he was 19 back then only to find that he was 24. Ok age isn’t the problem. I moved to another province to live with my mom’s family, he was angry n cut off connection between us. Well I moved on and all went well. I had a baby in 2010 with the new guy though I lost the child fine. I came back home in 2011 and met with Mr conductor he told me he hid for me that he had a 2year old bby boy n he’s now 27yrs of age. So he apologized for taking advantage of me. I forgave him and also told him my situation. Ok time went by he made contact again saying I should come sing in the same choir that he sings in, I agreed and went there. We had a fling and he started introducing me as he’s wife. I didn’t mind that well some chick who joined the choir long before me came and suddenly things changed…’they are dating!’
They then broke up after 3weeks and we were back together. Now in april I conceived and when I told him he said its not his child, he has a wife in the choir better I leave the choir. I need some advice should I abort and carry on with my singing or keep the baby and leave the choir? It’s 7weeks of Pregnancy now.