I know that people say if you have to question it then it might just be a bad idea so here goes: my boyfriend and I have been together for a while. We are three years a part, we love being together and we have a stable relationship going. He’s told me he loves me and he feels hurt because I’m afraid to say it back. I want to have sex with him but he is not a virgin and I am and I’m so worried that I might be giving up a big part of me and he might leave or cheat on me. The only reason I’m scared is because a lot of people in my family have cheated and I don’t think I’d ever handle that happening. What should I do? And guys opinions are greatly appreciated!!