I liked her, and I told her that I liked her and asked her out but she basically said no… She’s not over her ex, and doesn’t know what she wants.
She still talks to me, and reaches out to me… but when I try asking her to hang out, she usually declines and never tries to set a date in the future. At this point, I realize I can’t keep pushing it.
We use to work at the same place, and she often msgs me at work, and have the same group of friends. She’s starting to talk to me less and less as I heeded the advice of friends to not be so available to her whenever she started to talk. In some ways, I regret it but in other ways I know that she was probably using me as an emotional dumping ground (a.k.a, friendzoned). I do want to continue to be friends with her, if that makes sense?
I guess, I just don’t know how to stop thinking about her all the time. I’ve been trying to stay busy and going out with friends every night, but the moment I get home, it starts up again.