He doesn't want to commit again and I'm looking for commitment.

Hi sis Dolly I’m in a relationship with a guy I recently met. I deeply love him but the problem is we r in a distance relationship and we hardly see each other, his got kids and everytime I ask him to come see me he tells me his got a very busy schedule. I understand that his a busy person but I believe if he really love me the way he says he must make time for us. His from a very hurtful relationship and he doesn’t want to be commited again and I’m looking for commitment as I have my own requirements as a woman. Am I asking too much please help. Anonymous.