I met a Jamaican man years ago while I was on vacation. Since then I’ve travelled many times to Jamaica to see him, then years ago I became pregnant with my first child, a boy. While I was pregnant, I found out from a girl that kept calling my phone that he was cheating on me and living with her. I also found out this girl is also the mother to a child he never told me about. I was so hurt, I didn’t want to face the hurt for 3 years. After my baby turned 3 I took I returned to Jamaica after almost 4 years for my child to meet his father. His father apologized and told me he loves me and wants to try again, but ever since I’ve given him another chance, I find myself giving him chance after chance. He continues to disappoint me by lying, disrespecting me, and still calling the same girl he cheated on me with. I’m so hurt and broken up about everything, I really believed he would be different. Do you think I should continue in this relationship or move on and find someone new? My mind is telling me to move on but my heart still loves my child’s father. Please give me your honest feedback.
