My boyfriend and I have been dating for four months. During the start of our relationship he had a psychotic break with grandiose delusions. I spent the first 3 weeks living with him and his very wealthy parents until he was finally admitted to a mental hospital and slowly got better. During those first few weeks, we saw his friends and family every day. Went out to dinner and drinks and had fun but since hes been better, he hasnt brought me round his house at all.
He’s made it pretty clear his mother doesnt like me, I believe she is under the impression I caused the psychotic break and I really think she thinks I’m trashy and not good enough.
We also havent gone out at all. The past 3 months hes just come over my house once/twice a week to spend the night. Now, hes a very naturally shy and reserved person. It takes alot to get anything out of him and I have a problem with this. He’s amazing and smart and nice and everything I’ve wanted, but heres my problem.
This morning, he slept in til 2pm then when he woke up and I told him I wanted to do something today, he informs me he’s busy and going to a friends going away party. It breaks my heart he wont invite me to these things. I just feel so trashy and like hes ashamed of me. He just doesnt understand. He left while I was in tears and I sent him a text explaining this to him and asked him to come back tonight as I dont think I’ll be okay by myself all night.
Am I over reacting? I know he needs time away, but so much? And never having me around his family and friends? I just feel so irrelevant. Even when hes here hes not here, he’s on the laptop sucked into his own little world. I should also probably mention this is his first proper relationship.