Due to many economical and social challenges many girls have resorted to sugar daddies for financial support and comfort. Below is an article that highlights 10 Women’s Experiences Dating A Sugar Daddy. Whilst some of them are cringeworthy and flat concerning some surprisingly have been cited as worth the while and memorable. Check what these sugar babies had to say below and share your two cents!
Worked out very well
“I’ve had a few guys offer, but they were very old and unattractive to me. A friend of mine has had an ongoing sugar daddy thing for years. She’s stunning (looks like adriana lima with bigger boobs) and her sugar daddy is in his 50s and actually pretty good looking for an older guy. He’s bought her a condo, a lexus, a couple birkin bags, jewellery, and has helped support her kid (she’s a single mom). So for her it has worked out very well.”
I don’t regret it at all
“I had a wonderful sugar daddy experience, but it was more lowkey and less “flashy” than the image most people have. I was 24, looking for fwb basically, and figured “What the hell?” and posted an ad searching for my “daddy”. This guy in his 40’s answers, he loves music and plays and is an artist–all things right up my alley. He’s not ugly or gross, but not my type. Whatever. We ended up REALLY connecting. It was like we were meant to meet, it was quite strange! We became great friends. We fucked, but I could tell he respected me more than just any sugar baby–and, eventually, I wanted to fuck him, anyway. He gave me money after every visit, very non-chalantly… We just never spoke of it. It was an ideal situation for sure, I don’t know how I got so lucky. We’re still in touch but the sugar relationship fizzled out last year. I don’t regret it at all, but of course I am hesitant to share with friends for fear of judgement.”
Worth it at the time, for a while’
” It was worth it at the time, for a while. I made a profile on a sugar daddy dating website because I thought, “hey if I’m gonna put myself out there to date casually anyway, why don’t I put myself out there and see if any rich dudes want to also buy me shit.” For as long as I was interested in the whole thing, which was maybe like a couple months, I was talking to many guys and actually seeing one. We had some fun together. Nights in nice hotels, really nice dinners, he’d buy me presents and stuff. He was kind of needy, though, and it became annoying have to be so “on” all the time. You’re really acting as someone’s fantasy woman and that, to me, was exhausting. We only saw each other for like two months maybe. I can’t really imagine myself wanting to dip my toes back into that particular lake. I’m 23 now which, honestly, feels like it’s a little above the age range most of these men are looking to date. My curiosity was satisfied.”
Definitely worth it
“My sister has a sugar daddy that lives on the other side I the country. They have an online Skype relationship and every so often he transfers money into her bank account. It’s helped us pay rent a few times and she doesn’t actually have to do anything with him sexually, so yeah definitely worth it.”
I didn’t like the feeling I owe somebody
“When I was 19, my former best friend was off in college on the East Coast. She didn’t make friends easily so she spent most of her time online looking for attention from these “sugardaddies”. Sure, she had her fun going shopping, getting designer purses and clothes. She met this one sugardaddy who eventually became her boyfriend. As time wore on… I could see her self-esteem and confidence withering away. She was an independent young woman who was set on pre-med who became this girl who failed her classes and dependent on this man to validate her self-worth. Honestly, I think greed was her downfall. She was definitely materialistic. This guy was spending 20k on her a month (flights to his city, dinners, shopping trips etc) so I’m sure she felt she owes him. She tried to get me into it and it just wasn’t for me. I didn’t like the feeling that I had to owe somebody just because they bought me a purse. We eventually stopped talking and I have no idea what she is up to now.”
Not sugar daddy material
” I made a profile on a dating site one time. I had gotten out of a 3-year relationship about 6 months previous. My ex (who I had been head-over-heels for) already had a new girlfriend. My attitude was kind of, “Screw love, I’m marrying for money”. I only had the profile for maybe a month or so tops. Anyways, most of the guys on there were older (40+) and I was 22. There would be no way I could go through with actually meeting one of them, have me buy me a bunch of shit, and then have to sleep with him. Gross. There was one guy I actually met, he was in his late 20’s, but I still couldn’t go through with the arrangement. He took me shopping but I didn’t buy one thing. That was the first and only time a guy has taken me out to stores and offer to buy me whatever I want. What’s kind of ironice though is that’s also the first and only time I’ve been out shopping and couldn’t one single thing I wanted. I didn’t sleep with him either. We texted a few times after that, but I never saw him again. I’m not sugar daddy material I guess. I wouldn’t mind if my SO pampered me, but some older, random guy, who I’m only interested to let him buy me things is not my cup of tea.”
Dates have paid for groceries, clothes and bills
“The few dates I’ve gone on have paid for textbooks, clothes, groceries and other bills. I’ve been able to help out my parents with the $ I’ve made but it’s not enough to move out and be independent. Finding the perfect guy doesn’t happen overnight and I’ve had a lot of fakes and flakes since I began my search. I live in a small city and I’m too paranoid to fly out so pickings are slim. Luckily, I haven’t had to sleep with anyone. That wouldn’t be a problem if the guys were actually attractive and rich (but most aren’t).”
Was it worth it? absolutely
“This sort of counts. I was in a terrible part of my life, anorexia, alcoholism, mentally unstable, early 20’s, and in just general loving attention from men. I met some man (not from an online website, legit in real life meeting, he approached me) who was dark, slightly gothy but not Hot Topic ‘goth’ he was truly dark, mysterious, was an amazing artist and musician. He was perfect (to me), but not a traditionally gorgeous man by ANY means. He was married to a BDSM model, who was stunning. They had an open relationship and could see people on the side AS LONG AS they didnt find out about it. He bought me things, like a cute pink dress, gave me money when I needed it, was amazing at flirting, would take care of me when I was drunk and just fun as fuck. We didnt sleep together, but it probably wouldve gotten to that stage if his wife didnt find out about me. I cant recall HOW she found out, the wife, but she did, and she was pissed. he IMed me and told me how much he adored me, but our relationship had to stop. I was DEVASTATED, seriously a heart breaking day in my life. we REALLY connected, it was bizarre. I am a married woman now but I still think about him every now and then, I am not connected to my husband the same way I was with him. I love my husband, but my ‘dark mysterious man’ was different. Was it worth it? absolutely.”
Paid for food
“When I was in college, I didn’t have a lot of money. My parents refused to help me with living expenses, even though I was working as many hours as I could at my job and the money I was making only paid for my rental expenses and not much else. I was starving, literally. Sometimes my dad would take pity on me when I visited home and would sneak me a twenty here and there, but it wasn’t enough to pay for nutritionally beneficial food very long. My mom just sneered at me and told me that I’d probably just lose some weight if I stopped eating, and to think of it as a diet. I met Bob in one of my classes. He really liked me. I thought he was kind of unattractive, and I was already in a long distance relationship with two guys back in my hometown (dual relationship, woo), but he asked me to go have lunch with him and I was starving, so I didn’t have enough willpower to refuse. So we were eating together when he broached the topic of basically making our friend date into a date date. I explained my situation, but he was seriously smitten with me, and I liked him as a person even though I didn’t find him sexually attractive. So I told him that if he wanted to, I would hang out with him, we could get food together (ie: he could buy food for me), and we could become closer. I’d also give him tips on finding a girlfriend and help out in any non-monetary way I could (I had a car but he did not, so we’d do Costco runs together). For the next two or so years, he would come and see me after work and we’d go and eat. Sometimes we’d go out to eat in the middle of the night, which seemed scary for me as a woman, but he was big and no one ever bothered us. He even let me sleep on the couch at the apartment he shared with some other geeky dudes, and we all had some good times watching anime and stuff. I ended up doing a lot of cooking there for them, and they had terrible housekeeping skills, so I helped keep the apartment clean until I found a new place to live. Still, I often slept on his couch when I had an early morning class, and we had quite a number of debate/discussions about various interesting things. It never really got sexual. I think once or twice he touched my breasts, but he was never creepy about it and I have cartoonishly huge boobs, so it’s something most people at least think about doing at one point or another when they meet me. After he got a girlfriend and one of my boyfriends moved to the town I was going to school at, it was weird because he would still pay for my food when we were alone, but whenever other people were there, he wouldn’t. It was kind of a secret between us. And his girlfriend was insanely jealous of me, even though I was careful not to act like I was making a move on him. Eventually, they broke up and I became friends with his ex (who is younger and was apparently suffering from bipolar disorder). Now he’s engaged to this other woman who lives about an hour away and he bought a house with her. They seem happy together and he sometimes sends me invitations to various functions over there, but I have kids and a super busy schedule, so I can’t go very often.
